‘Is your husband missing’ – Dayo Amusa hits back at critics over Baby Daddy’s identity

Yoruba actress Dayo Amusa has damaged her silence relating to the persistent questions concerning the paternity of her youngster, Oluwafirewamiri.

PREMIUM TIMES earlier reported that the actress welcomed her first youngster, Oluwafirewamiri, in the US on 18 November, although she withheld the id of the kid’s father.

The id of Oluwafirewamiri’s father sparked widespread speculations, with the actress, who started her profession in 2002, turning into a scorching subject amongst social media customers.

Responding to the critics and trolls in a TikTok stay session on Monday, Amusa, who transitioned into movie manufacturing in 2006, expressed her proper to privateness and appreciated those that supported her journey into motherhood.

The actress famous that she retains her youngster’s father’s id non-public to guard her peace of thoughts and protect her happiness from exterior negativity.

She mentioned: “I wish to ask these asking concerning the father of my youngster: Is it that their husband is lacking, or was there a census performed that exposed their husband’s loss? These persons are so unbecoming. Did they conduct a census for husbands, and when requested, “The place’s their husband?” they mentioned, “He’s inside my room,” and that’s why they’re in search of the daddy of my youngster? As a result of I truthfully don’t perceive.

“A toddler just isn’t some fruit that drops from heaven. It’s a person and a girl who come collectively, mate and create a toddler. Don’t stress your self about it. It’s not obligatory or obligatory to congratulate me on the beginning of my youngster. If it’s not handy for you, don’t trouble—I gained’t maintain it in opposition to you as a result of I’m a contented individual.”

Oluwafirewamiri’s father’s id

Moreover, the 41-year-old famous that it’s not the accountability of on-line customers to delve into her non-public issues, emphasising that she is the entertainer, not her husband.

She acknowledged that her youngster’s father’s id is part of her non-public life and never the priority of netizens.

She additional maintained that these searching for details about her youngster’s father are people who thrive on disrupting others’ happiness by meddling in issues that don’t concern them.

“The place the joyful ones are rejoicing, that’s the place you’ll discover me. It’s not vital to know who fathered my youngster. Isn’t it me you’re involved about? Isn’t it me, the actress? Did I carry my husband to behave alongside me? Or what precisely is your drawback? There are particular stuff you’ll by no means get satisfaction from me about.

“I’ll solely reveal what I need the general public to know as a result of I worth peace. My private life, which you’re so serious about, is not going to be disclosed to you. Do you suppose I’ll will let you pour sand into my cassava flakes? My youngster’s naming ceremony was intimate, with solely those that prayed for me to have a toddler invited”, mentioned Amusa.

IVF

Moreover, the actress expressed issues about bloggers and social media influencers who unearthed her colleague Opeyemi Aiyeola’s In Vitro Fertilization (IVF) video to fire up controversy between them.

Throughout a TikTok stay session, Aiyeola inspired individuals to share their sincere experiences with IVF and surrogacy to encourage others. Nonetheless, netizens misinterpreted her remarks as being directed at Amusa.

This newspaper earlier reported that the 47-year-old actress clarified in a Fb video that her message was not geared toward Amusa.

Amusa, who gained the 2013 Finest Kiss award on the Better of Nollywood Awards, described those that edited her photos alongside her colleague’s video as mentally unstable people in want of pressing consideration.

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She famous, “Since you’re determined for social media validation, views, and {dollars}, you’ve resorted to spreading rumours about individuals. However I’m somebody with an excellent coronary heart, a giver. If speaking about me is your technique of survival and places meals in your desk, then go forward. These {dollars} you’re making from social media are massive cash, so cook dinner up your lies, make your cash, and feed your loved ones. I’m completely happy to be reckoned with.”

Criticisms

The 2014 Finest Crossover Act on the Yoruba Film Academy Awards acknowledged that she was no stranger to criticism.

She emphasised that the hypothesis about her youngster’s father’s id wouldn’t compel her to disclose his identify.

She expressed gratitude to everybody who congratulated her and despatched items for her youngster.

“I’m so shocked—when did you all migrate to Fb to poke your noses into different individuals’s non-public lives? And you then complain about media retailers writing unfavourable tales about individuals. I ought to know—I’ve been their primary goal. They’ve written all kinds of issues about me for the reason that days of newspapers earlier than blogs and social media existed.

“I used to be at all times featured in Sunday and Monday publications. And it didn’t cease there; radio and tv had been additionally used to unfold lies about me. However I’ve at all times been clever and know how one can deal with issues, even earlier than Instagram existed. You, the brand new era feeding on social media by writing dangerous issues about individuals simply to get views, suppose you should use my story to advertise your platforms. You’re nonetheless studying from me. Earlier than you bloggers and influencers, I used to be already right here.”