Betty Irabor has tapped from her expertise to share some recommendation for {couples}.
The Genevieve Journal writer shared a stunning picture of her and husband Soni Irabor at a Valentine’s Day outing yesterday, Feb. 14, 2025.
Within the caption, she identified that they’ve had 42 Valentine’s Day dates collectively to this point.
Utilizing her expertise at this yr’s Valentine’s Day outing and the experiences gleaned over time, she suggested {couples} to “rise up and dance” when their love music performs and to keep away from losing moments as a result of they’re fleeting.
She added that love requires “one hundred pc of your dedication” and urged {couples} to “do unto one as you want the opposite would do to you”.
Her submit reads: “When your love music performs.. do rise up and dance.
“As the gorgeous band @thedelborough performed Chris de Burghs; Woman in crimson final night time, Soni mentioned to our buddies, that is the music I used to chase (woo) Betty in these days.
“Then he checked out me and requested ‘why are you not carrying crimson?’ I chuckled shyly.
“We each wished to bounce however the second handed as we reminisced on our earlier years valentine escapades. I’m glad we constructed these stunning reminiscences however gladder that we’re nonetheless constructing reminiscences after 42 valentines dates collectively.
“Constructing reminiscences collectively is a fantastic feeling as a result of you possibly can all the time draw from the nicely of these reminiscences in more durable instances.
“Typically it’s the guts that whispers -sweet somethings’ even whenever you’re saying nothing.
“Love will not be all the time within the phrases we specific however within the actions that outline it.
“Love requires one hundred pc of your dedication.
“It’s difficult to ‘give all’ to make it work but it surely’s doable when your coronary heart and head are in it.
“It’s potential if it’s not primarily based on fleeting feelings and inflated expectations.It’s potential the place there isn’t a strain to stay in an idealistic world the place all the things is ideal.
“Make sure that to retailer your love within the reminiscence financial institution of your coronary heart in order that just like the gardenia flower it will probably launch its perfume in all seasons.. excessive or low.
“And when your love music comes up on the turntable, please rise up and dance.
“Don’t waste these moments as a result of life is fleeting.
“I want you extra stamina on this lengthy distance journey known as marriage..Do unto the one as you want the opposite would do to you.
“Invite Christ into your own home.”
